Introduction

We often limit ourselves and our potential with thoughts like “I’m not musical,” “I’m not creative,” or “I’m not athletic.” These self-imposed restrictions and outside influences block us from reaching our true potential.

Do You Believe Anything Is Possible?

If you are like me, you probably dreamed as a child about growing up to do some job. I wanted to be an astronaut. Or play in the NBA. (I’m neither of those today!) Even now as an adult, you likely have ideas or inspirations about achieving something, learning a new skill, accomplishing some new goal. If you are like me, though, you usually are quick to dismiss the idea or perhaps you even have tried for a minute and then given up. As a result, you likely conclude that some dreams are simply out of reach and you move on. But in doing so, you rob yourself of the ability to build the life that your spirit is yearning for, you miss the adventure of the journey, and you probably are settling for a lesser version of your true potential. 

The Pooh and Picasso Analogy

Consider the philosophy of Winnie the Pooh. “People say nothing is impossible, but I do nothing every day.” Although a lovable character, Pooh isn’t going to accomplish much with that mindset. Contrast this with the extraordinary output of Pablo Picasso, who created 50,000 pieces of art in his lifetime. While we may not remember all his works, each piece was part of his journey, helping him improve day by day. The message here isn’t just about producing more, but rather about constantly evolving and growing better. But can you be a Picasso?

Embarking on the Journey

During a family vacation a few years ago, I powered through thirteen books on what makes people exceptional. This exploration led me to the concept of “deliberate practice” and the role of myelin in the brain. This realization was nothing short of revolutionary – a Eureka moment. From psychology to neuroscience, these books and the studies they rely on confirm that there are no naturals or child prodigies. Instead, our ability to learn, grow and achieve greatness is a product of the right kind of sustained effort and the proper mindset.

Cracking the Code

That’s great news, isn’t it? Since achieving exceptional outcomes doesn’t depend on innate talent or special genes, we all possess the potential to excel in nearly anything we choose to pursue. But there’s a quick realization that follows. There’s no more room for excuses. Why aren’t we achieving extraordinary feats if we already have what it takes?

Obstacles and Myths

There are at least two obstacles that hold us back. First, it’s easier to attribute exceptionalism to gifted individuals like Serena Williams or Michael Phelps and assume they possess something we lack. This mistaken belief allows us to settle into mediocrity. Second, assumed constraints – these artificial limitations – are deeply ingrained in us. Consider the Ken Blanchard’s metaphor of a baby elephant tied to a stake, conditioned to believe it can’t break free. Even as it grows so big and strong that it could easily pull the stake out of the ground, it doesn’t. It’s an assumed constraint. We similarly limit ourselves all the time.

Reawaken Childhood Dreams

Think back to your childhood dreams – whether becoming an astronaut or ballerina. These dreams fade as we grow older and start rationalizing what’s “realistic,” influenced by parents, friends, and our own “adult” minds. Maybe that childhood dream doesn’t make sense anymore for you; maybe you have new dreams. Something that is lingering in your mind and spirit – a vision for your life that keeps hanging around. Allow yourself to visualize that dream again, and then challenge the assumed constraints that are holding you back. I suspect they likely are just that – assumed constraints.

Conclusion

So, do you believe that anything is possible? More importantly, do you believe it’s possible for you? Embrace the mindset of constant improvement, challenge assumed constraints, and embark on the journey to exceptionalism. It’s a hard path, but it’s one worth taking – for you, for your work, and for the world around you.